Disconnected when we zone or die

[alifeyl]

A friend is hosting a server so he, I and another friend can play together. When we use the EQEmulator server, we get disconnected whenever we zone or die. This doesn’t happen when he plays on his own server without hosting. He’s wondering if his server is slow and taking too long to load and if there is a way to change the length of time before you are disconnected. I thought it might have been a full screen issue so tried zoning in windowed mode. No luck – still hung and had to reconnect.

There are two clients plus the host and all have the same issue. We would appreciate any ideas on what to tweak. Thanks.